Wanene misanthrope? Ana iya jin wannan kalmar lokaci-lokaci, duka a cikin jawaban magana da talabijin. Amma ba kowa ya san menene ma'anar sa ta gaskiya ba.
A cikin wannan labarin za mu gaya muku su waye kuskuren yanayi da kuma lokacin da ya halatta a yi amfani da wannan kalmar dangane da sauran mutane.
Menene rashin tsari
Misanthropy nisantawa ne daga mutane, ƙiyayya gare su da rashin zaman lafiya. Wasu masana kimiyya sunyi la'akari da shi azaman halin mutuntaka na halin ɗan adam. Fassara daga tsohuwar yaren Girka, wannan ma'anar a zahiri tana nufin "misanthropy".
Don haka, misanthrope shine mutumin da yake gujewa zamantakewar mutane, wahala, ko, akasin haka, yana jin daɗin ƙiyayyar mutane. Gaskiya mai ban sha'awa ita ce, wannan lokacin ya sami farin jini sosai bayan fitowar wasan kwaikwayo na Moliere "The Misanthrope".
Tunda ɓatancin magana suna guje wa sadarwa da kowa, suna yin iyakar ƙoƙarinsu don tafiyar da rayuwar kadaici. Baƙi ne ga ƙa'idodi da ƙa'idodin da aka yarda da su gabaɗaya.
Koyaya, idan mutum mishanthrope ne, wannan baya nufin cewa shi cikakken mai kaɗaici ne. Galibi yana da ƙananan abokai waɗanda ya yarda da su kuma waɗanda a shirye yake ya raba matsalolinsa.
Ya kamata a lura cewa misanthropy za a iya kiyaye shi na wani lokaci kawai. Misali, a lokacin samartaka, yawancin samari sun fara keɓewa ko baƙin ciki. Koyaya, daga baya, sun koma ga hanyar su ta dā.
Sanadin misanthropy
Mutum na iya zama misanthrope saboda rauni na yara, tashin hankali na gida, ko ƙauracewar abokan zama. A sakamakon haka, mutum ya kai ga matsayar da ba daidai ba cewa babu wanda yake ƙaunarsa ko fahimtarsa.
Bugu da ari, ya fara kara nisantar da kansa daga jama'a kuma ya ci gaba da nuna rashin yarda ga dukkan mutane. Misanthropy sau da yawa yana bayyana kanta a cikin hanyar ci gaba da cutar da mutanen da ke kusa da su, don ɗaukar fansa a kansu da kuma jefa duk fushinsu a kansu.
Hakanan, misanthrope na iya zama mutum da ke da ƙwarewar ƙwaƙwalwa. Fahimtar cewa akwai "wawaye" kawai a kewaye dashi yana iya juyawa zuwa rashin tsari.
A wasu halaye, misanthropy na iya zaɓa: kawai dangane da maza (misandry), mata (misogyny) ko yara (misopedia).
